This is a PSA: if you are not Native American then the GENDER you are looking for is Bi-gendered, Pan-gendered or possibly Genderfluid. It is NEVER OK to say you are two spirit.
This blog is dedicated to: queerness, body Positivity, art, poetry, politics, sex, friendship, and love. with a big side helping of pop culture.
When a trans person tells you it’s okay for mistakenly using the wrong name or pronouns, it means the instance is forgiven or dismissed and the conversation can move on. In reality, it still hurts but we say it’s okay because we understand you are making an effort to get it right. This is not an invitation to stop making that effort. You are not the exclusion to the rule.
"We live in a world where losing your phone is more dramatic than losing your virginity"
Um ok but I don’t recall my virginity having 16 GB of memory with all my contacts, music, photos, calendars, and apps or costing over $200.
my phone is an expensive and important material object and not a useless social construct put in place to shame and commodify women
Plus I remember where I lost my virginity.